By Haylie Swenson The day after my 31st birthday, I came out as bisexual… …but not to my husband, family or friends. That would happen later.
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First, I had to come out to. Growing up in a socially conservative religion, I was taught that sex was reserved for monogamously married men and women.
Well, I could chalk that up to appraisal, not desire. Women check each other out all the time, I told. I want to be like them, not with. And sure, I thought about kissing my meet horny single women in karlsruhe friend, but that was just hormones misfiring I blamed a lot on hormones misfiring.
I was convincing.
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Something was wrong with me, and somehow it was my fault. Boys pushed these anxieties to the back of my mind. I liked how being with them made me think about sex. And I liked being liked by boys, how dating them meant participating in a narrative that everyone in my world could understand, including me. In my early twenties, I married the best of the boys, an attractive engineer with a dry wit who made me laugh until I cried and saved all the receipts from our first year of dating.
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As I got older, my world expanded. And then I met a girl. The day of the wedding arrived, and Congresbury women wanting a fuck buddy did Miriam, devastatingly beautiful in a rainbow jumpsuit.
I spent the day torn between wanting to talk to her and wanting to hide. Over the next few days I lost my fear, but not my fascination.
Visitors are allowed to swim, so we all jumped into the icy water. Maybe the White Spring really is magical, and I was blessed by that strange, old place.
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Or maybe I was just sick of lying to. I spent the rest of the day in a haze. None of these three beloved people were straight, and they were all happy and confident in their sexualities.
I could be like. I could be.
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So far, the deepest joy of coming out has been learning to trust that the things that make me me — what I want, who I want — are valuable.
But why should that matter?
Thankfully, this is changing as more and more shows introduce bi characters who are at ease with their own sexuality. Two of my favorite shows, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend and Jane the Virgineach have more than one bisexual character.
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Haylie Swenson is a writer, educator and cool aunt living in Austin, with her husband and two cats.